Kaden Asher's Story

Kaden Asher was born Jan 30th 2004. 8lbs 3oz 20inches and VERY healthy. He has a unilateral cleft lip & palate.

Tuesday, October 19, 2004

Stitches coming out

Today Kaden's stitches are coming out! He looks GREAT! I finally was able to get the big scab off under his nose ... after a struggle... looks so much better.. and he is pretty much back to himself.. except i wont let him crawl.. :) he feel this morning AGAIN right on his nose.. ouch.

Well we are off to get stitches out i will write how it went when we get back

Friday, October 15, 2004

2 days post op

Well we did it. Kaden did it! I'm still exhausted. I wonder if i will ever catch up.? Kaden looks so wonderful & different. He looks like a little boy & not a baby anymore. I will post some pictures after i write this... here is the "story"

Wednesday morning got off in a rush, i woke up later than i wanted to. I planned on waking up at 3:30 to finish packing, putting stuff in the car, getting ready BUT my mom came in and woke me up at 4! i shut my alarm off so everything was done in 15-20mins. We got to the hospital just shortly before 5am. Signed in, signed all the papers, then went up to surgery preparation. They put us in the "little" kids room it had toys, & chairs for waiting & the cribs. We were the first ones there then later this little baby she was only a few months old arrived with her mom & dad.. Her mom kept on crying i couldn't figure out why until later... She had heart surgery. very sad, everytime i looked at her she made me cry. then later came in a boy about 3 1/2 he has bilateral club feet. this was his 3rd operation i talked to his mom & dad while we were waiting & in the waiting room. So the nurse takes all of kaden's stats gets him a gown at first she thought HE was a GIRL! she started getting him a PINK gown. Then i was like he's a boy.. shes like oh i thought it said KAREN. what D, R? lol I can't remember his weight or height but it was good, i think height was 30something inches & weight 20 something. Everyone who was doing something to him today was running late.. except the ENT. he was the first one we saw, then the anethesologist, then his nurse, then PS. On the procedure paper they had down a alvelour ridge bone graft, i was like umm is that right i thought the was getting his lip fixed.. his PS said it was wrong.. well of course it was.. so his nurse filled new papers out and it was all better. So around 7:30ish or a few mins after Kaden passes out on my shoulder... my sweet boy... my last looks at his lip, face... his nurse came in around 7:45 to take him back to the operating room. I cried.. i knew i would. But who wasnt crying in that room! Then as i was walking to goto the waiting room this guy was walking there too & said i made his girl friend cry... I guess it was the lady who i could see out of the window .. she was having surgery too i dont know what for.

The wait went by alot faster than i thought it would. i walked down to the coffee shop got a coffee & bagle. At 9:10 his ps came to talk to me. said everything went great and it would be a few minutes before they called me back to be with Kaden... well a few minutes turned into like 30-40minutes.. that was a longer wait than the just under 2 hours for surgery! finally my little beeper beeps and i run to the desk.. lol.. not really but it felt like it.. she took me back to be with my baby. He was sleeping again... he looked so different it took my breath away! I couldn't believe it was done. and no more cleft lip after 8.5 months. he was sleeping peacefully then woke up. She let me hold him but he started freaking out so she gave him some pain medication i tried giving him some pedialyte but he would take it... then transportation came up we finally got a room. We went down to pediatrics. His nurse was the best! she was very nice & helpful. Got me everything i needed. I even got 1 meal that night. My mom came to the hospital for an hour or so. Kaden ate some formula, did pretty well i can't remember how much he ate i think around 3oz. then he went to sleep while grandma was there... I ate lunch and took some pictures... Then i told my mom she could go cause she was tired and had to work that night.. so i slept while Kaden did.. then lannette & max came up to visit... brought Kaden a cute toy.. he was sleeping then he woke...he kept starring at Max... and smiling at them... too darn cute... He got his first dose of medicine by mouth shortly after they left. he took it very well the nurse was shocked. but he does take medicine well no matter what it tastes like. he didnt go to sleep for a few hours... around 7 or so i think. maybe later.. i can't remember.. I know we were still up at 10.. but we both went to sleep shortly after i rocked him in the rocking chair. then he woke up around 3 and got more medicine, diaper change, stats and all that good stuff.. then back to sleep around 4 and up at 8.. and his PS came in took a look said it was a little more swollen than usual but it would go down within 48hrs. and said to come in next Tuesday for the stitches to come out! so soon!? yup if they are kept in any longer they would leave marks. Then he wrote out his prescription and said we could go home! yay... we got discharged, and a new roomate.. a little baby he had just gotten done with surgery for hemeradge. his mom, dad & gma were VERY nice.. his gma kept playing with Kaden & making him laugh. it was cute.

Friday, October 08, 2004

I'm mobile... come catch me.....

Yes Kaden has learned how to crawl! I'm so excited.. i knew he was going to do it soon because he wanted to get things soo bad. Well yesterday he did it.. at first he was up on all 4's but dragging his knees.. but now he's actually moving them :) he's so darn cute. I love him SO much. This morning i was laying in bed... and thinking very soon i'm going to be laying to my baby boy with a new lip... ok not new but different.. it's getting so real now.


I had my video camera out and was going through it.. it was from birth.. till today.. he's grown soo much. It's amazing how fast the time goes by. I'm thankful that i have gotten to spend this time every single day with him. I know if i was working it would have gone by SO much faster. I would be very sad. I can't stop thinking about his surgery... i'm going to cry..i know i am i will try & be strong but i wont be able to help it. it's just i have only know this smile for 8 months just about 8.5.... and now it's going to change. .... I know i have probaby said that a million times.. but i can't help it. Well i am off to bed now.. Kaden likes to get up with the sun and it's hard for me to sleep during th day for some reason??

Wednesday, October 06, 2004

7 days & couting

Well it's been a while since i have wrote. Sorry but my old keyboard was being a pain in the butt and i couldnt type much without a lot of typos. But mom bought a new one today and it's SO nice! So anyways.. a little re-cap...


Oct, 2nd. We went out to Tempe for the Nickelodeon play day event. It was fun, hot but fun. I wish i would have known what to expect because I didnt bring Kaden's stroller or sunscreen :( Luckley we had Yasmine's old stroller but Kaden got a little red nothing major thank god. He just kicked back and enjoyed the outside. He's a very good baby he never complains! Then on Yasmines birthday the 4th. We went to Chuck E. Cheese had pizza, & played games Kaden even rode on some rides. Then we came home and had cake & ice cream Yas opened presents. Kaden didnt do much with the cake just played with it. He sure wanted the wrapping paper though :)

Today we went to Ambers. Played there for a few hours. She has a baby he is 7 weeks.. so cute! Kaden just looked at him like what is that... he even grabbed his head at one point.. but Kaden was having too much fun flirting & playing with Amber :) He's such a doll. Only 7more days until surgery.. i'm scared... well nervous.. i duno.. I know i will miss this smile i have fallen in love with .. but I know I will love his "new" smile too. Just have to get used to it...

Kaden & I got over a cold. It wasn't fun... He actually gave it to me. I dont know where it came from maybe from the weather change? Unfortunaly we aren't going to make it to Oregon next month :( I'm very sad. They just keep raising the prices of airline tickets and i can't buy it. So i guess we will just have to wait until we move back... I really wanted to see everyone & especially the newest addition Desiree... I'm sad..

I can't believe that Kaden is alread 8 months old 4 months until his 1st birthday.. where did it go? He is trying so hard to crawl, he gets on all 4's then he plunges forward and falls on his chest.. it's funny because he's so determinded to do it. He will probably start crawling a day or two before surgery then have to wear the no no's and wont be able to crawl...