Well yesterday was the "big" day. right, the entire apt with the plastic surgeon was about 30mins. I guess is ok, everything is great. The ps said "Hes a big boy, where has he been, we need to get this done" well ya i know! ughh it made me mad. PS looked at Kaden's palate, he said it's not big at all "Wide" it is a compelete. and his lip isn't as big as it was when he was born. so hopefully that will reduce some things. they had never heard or seen the Pigeon nipple so i got to tell them about it show them how it works etc. So now i am just waiting forthe PS schedular to get back in the office on Tuesday to sched the surgery date.. very scarey! ahh, i dont want to do this.. i'm so scared, i wish he didn't have to go through all this... ! just to think this is going to go on the rest of his life... of course not ALL the time.. but gosh.. Ok well i have to go i'm getting all teary eyed!! love you all