When I found out.....

Ok so this one is long over due. My website got erased because I didn't keep up on it, so the story of Kaden is no longer out there... until now..... I'm writing this now in 2008 but putting an earlier date on it so it shows up as the first post.

So I had my ultrasound in October this was my first one are you a boy or a girl! So my best friend came to my appointment with me, we got through the whole thing IT'S A BOY, the tech went and got the Dr and he took a look for a minute then he said meet me in my conference room... umm what does this mean, is something wrong, does he do this with everyone? Soo we go into his room sit wait for him to come in. He sits down and says do you / did you do drugs drink smoke... umm no.. do you know of any family member's with birth defects again no.... Your son has a cleft lip OMG, I just remember I cried, I knew what a cleft lip was but did i know alot about it? No I didn't. So he wrote it down for me on a bright pink sticky note cleft lip infact i still have that to this day!

So Laurie & I go to lunch and the back to work, yes I was and still am a work aholic. :) I go tell people it's a boy and act as if nothing is wrong. I was afraid to tell people because I didn't want to be judged or talked about. Oh she must have done something wrong. No parent wants to go through that.

I continued to have ultrasound after ultrasound not that I didn't enjoy them I love all my ultrasound pictures and my video. They tried to tell if there was a cleft palate in womb but they were unable to determine it. So i wouldn't find that out until he was born...

That's it for now.....